Tuesday, May 03, 2005

A question might become a problem

How to avoid conflict with customs,? According to the class I attended this afternoon, the solutions could be listed as follows: ASAP, which stands for "Approachable, Sincere, Altruistic and Professional".
People are often at a loss what to do when entering a new place. For some reasons, the first thing we do in a new place is to observe other people's action and follow the same move instead of asking for help, and most of the time we mistakenly assume that it is the right thing to do. But when we suddenly find out we are going to the wrong track. The anger might explode at the moment. In that case, if we actively approach to serve customs with sincere and professional way. The valuable time can be saved and a question won't end up being a problem.
Bill Clinton like to approach to people of middle or lower class living in downtown by saying "I feel your pain," when running a presidential compaign. That is a good way to win suppors from people when you choose to be on their side. That means you do care about them and you're the one who could rely on. Admittedly, everyone like to be felt important, so when you provide people with the sense of trust, respect, and feeling important, you could have great opportunities to get your way easily without much effort- that's so called "human nature".

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